They rather live alone and unloved than disrespected! (whereas women chose disrespect over being alone and unloved) Their anger is usually how they respond to being disrepected! (women usually respond with crying when feeling unloved)
oh dear! Have I disrespected him without realizing it? This is a foreign concept to a woman yet as I chew on it .. not so foreign. Have I not been so frustrated and kept my words to myself because I had enough of people undermining my thoughts and intelligence? To me this is disrespect. So as I have these new eyes I am looking for all those fine line fractures of disrepect. I caught one yesturday as a wife told on her husband for eating raw eggs. I could see in his eyes the spark of anger. I had no idea how to respond. I just kept quiet wondering how to restore the respect in his choice to eat how he eats in order to live healthy. It is a mine field. I look at my learning habits and I tend to ask why a lot. I can see this an issue of disrespect so I am learning to respond with my questions but also learning to give my respect ...
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